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Money and Marriage
Issue 10. The Cost Of Having Children: If Children Are Part Of Your Plans

$ A "Diapering" Decision$ Rx Cabinet$ OB/GYN Costs$ Maternity Clothing$ Hospital Care$ Pediatric Care$ Basic Needs$ Wills$ Returning to Work$ Children and Financial Responsibilities

What does it cost to raise a child from birth through age 17? Using data from the Consumer Expenditure Survey, the U.S. Department of Agriculture reports that in 2003, it averaged $130,290 when household income was below $40,700, $178,590 when household income was between $40,700 and $68,400, and $261,270 when household income was over $68,400. 148,260.

While money should never be the only consideration in deciding whether or not to have children, it should at least be a point of discussion. Each new addition to your family will be costly. Not only do babies take more money, they take more time. Before you decide to add to your family, talk to your spouse about the additional costs associated with a third person in the household. How will you alter your current spending and rearrange your schedules to accommodate your new bundle of joy?

Few young couples can handle childbirth expenses without financial help. That is why it is extremely important for expectant mothers and fathers to go over their health insurance benefits to see exactly what's covered.

Check your coverage carefully for obstetrical fees, well-baby pediatrician visits, immunizations, prenatal vitamins, and genetic counseling. Also, know the amount of the deductible you will have to pay before benefits begin.

Now is the time to write your will, buy life insurance, and if you haven't already, start saving for your child's education. Financial planning is important. Don't put it off!

$ A "Diapering" Decision

During baby's first year, you'll change about 3,500 diapers. You may want to compare the price of the following:

Disposables

______ per week

Cloth/home washed (4 dozen)

______ per week

Diaper service

______ per week

$ Rx Cabinet

The following is a list of items you may need to add to an already well-stocked medicine cabinet and first aid kit just before baby arrives.

Baby thermometer

$_______

Nasal aspirator

$_______

Medication dropper

$_______

Baby aspirin/acetaminophen

$_______

Syrup of ipecac

$_______

Teething gel

$_______

Remember to check with your doctor before giving your baby any medication.

If you're considering children, fill in the blanks on the next two pages to get an estimate of what it might cost.

$ OB/GYN Costs (Over Nine-Month Period)

Doctor's visits

$_______

Prenatal lab work

$_______

Sonograms 

$_______

Amniocentesis

$_______

Vitamins

$_______

Childbirth classes

$_______

$ Maternity Clothing

Before you start shopping for a layette, you'll have some clothing needs of your own. Maternity clothing can be expensive given the short time it's worn. Make sure you have a wardrobe plan and budget in mind before you go shopping. You may be lucky and borrow outfits from friends.

Consider the cost of adding the following to your wardrobe:

Dress

$_______

Sweater

$_______

Jumper 

$_______

Blouse

$_______

Pants

$_______

Gown

$_______

Underwear

$_______

Jeans

$_______

Hose

$_______

T-shits

$_______

Exercise suit

$_______

Swimsuit

$_______

$ Hospital Care

With the options available in childbirth today, there are several ways parents can cut these medical costs. Comparison shop for an obstetrician and a hospital. Both often charge widely different fees for the same services.

Room and board (per day $______)

Total $_________

Pharmacy

$_______

Laboratory fees

$_______

Anesthesia

$_______

Fetal monitor

$_______

Circumcision (for males)

$_______

Pediatric newborn care

$_______

Pediatric Care (first year)

Well-baby visits (at 1, 2, 4, 6, 8 months)

$_______ (each)

Baby vitamins (year's supply)

$_______

Shots:  

(5) DTP (Diphtheria, tetanus, pertussis)
(at 2, 4, 6, 12 months, between 4-6 years)

$_______

(4) OPV (oral polio vaccine)
(at 2, 4, 6 months, between 4-6 years)

$_______

(4) HIB (haemophilus, influenza, type B vaccine)
(at 2, 4, 6, between 12-15 months)

$_______

(3) Hepatitis B
(birth, 2, 6 or 2, 4, 6 months)

$_______

(1) MMR (measles, mumps, rubella)
(at 1 year)

$_______

Basic Clothing Needs  
1-6 Months  

Undershirts (6)

$_______

Gowns (3)

$_______

Onesies or Bodysuits (3)

$_______

Booties/socks (2-4)

$_______

Sweater (1)

$_______

Receiving blankets (3-5)

$_______

6-12 Months  

T-shirts (6)

$_______

Coveralls (3)

$_______

Sleepers (3)

$_______

Sweatsuit (1)

$_______

Sweater (1)

$_______

Shoes

$_______

Basic Bathing and Bedding Needs  

Washcloths (6)

$_______

Bath towels (2-3)

$_______

Portable tub

$_______

Sheets

$_______

Crib Pads

$_______

Crib Blankets

$_______

Nail scissors

$_______

Brush and comb

$_______

Toiletries: (soap, lotion, oil, baby powder, swabs, cream, petroleum jelly, moist towelettes, shampoo, diaper rash ointment)

$_______

Basic Feeding Needs  

Bottles

$_______

Bottle brush

$_______

Formula

$_______

Bibs

$_______

Baby spoon

$_______

Baby cup

$_______

Baby food

$_______

   

If you choose to breastfeed, consider the costs of nursing bras, mother's supplements for iron, vitamins, and calcium, disposable nursing pads, breast pump and cream.

(The benefits of nursing usually outweigh the costs.)

$ Wills

Don't assume if you died without a will everything would automatically go to your spouse. Both husband and wife need a will. Use it to name a legal guardian for your child so the state will not have to designate one. Make an appointment with a lawyer today.

The cost $_______

 

$ Returning to Work

Many women assume they can't afford not to work. But often they have not calculated all the costs of working. In some cases, it may not be financially worth heading back.

Quality child care can be expensive unless you have a willing grandparent. If you have someone come to your home to care for your baby, you may be obligated to pay Social Security and Medicare taxes and federal unemployment taxes for the employee. Care provided outside the home isn't subject to these obligations.

Don't forget to claim the federal childcare tax credit on your income tax return.

Other Items for Your Baby  

Cradle

$_______

Safety gate

$_______

Car seat

$_______

Carriage

$_______

Toys

$_______

Humidifier

$_______

Swing

$_______

Toy box

$_______

Camera, film, Processing

$_______

High chair

$_______

Stroller

$_______

Pacifiers

$_______

Mobile

$_______

Walker

$_______

$ What Age Should Your Child Assume Financial Responsibilities?

 

Age in Years

  Never 8 or less 9 -11 12-14 15-16 18 or older
1. Receive an allowance.            
2. Open their own checking account            
3. Apply for a personal loan            
4. File a tax return without help            
5. Open a saving account            
6. Earn all of their own income            
7. Know their guardian in case of parents’ death            
8. Know amount of family income and indebtedness            
9. Know about family life insurance            
10. Be responsible for own clothing budget            
11. Know about family care (health and disability) insurance            
12. Know contents of parents’ will            
13. Figure net worth statement            
14. Make payments on personal loan (loan in their name)            
15. Make payments on personal loan (loan in their name)            
16. Help create a budget            
17. Fully responsible for checking account            
18. Know location of family savings            
19. Purchase own assets.            
20. Know amount of family emergency fund            
21. Be told family income            
22. Be fully responsible for own credit card            
23. Help keep records about family income            
24. Make decisions about own financial assets            
25. Know family monthly living cost            
26. Know financial assets that the child owns.            
27. Know location of papers after parents’ death            

 

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